i discovered my self when i was 15yrs old.oh yes..it was a different feel all together.you must be wondering what am i trying to say.but its true.it was then i started observing my self.in every aspects.i realized that i am a WOMAN!don't just think about the literal meaning of what i have meant my the word WOMAN.being a woman means a lot.i sometimes feel that the world still needs to know what woman is.she is not just a gender.world knows her as mother, wife, lover, daughter, and even as a body to have sex!!!a Prostitute!!have you ever thought, how it feels like being a woman?well....its a beautiful feeling if you love yourself...and know what you basically are..your passions..your needs...in short, the in and out of you! yes i mean it.its not necessary that you dress up like every other women does to be recognized as a woman. its all in HOW you want yourself to be recognized. every woman is unique. just that they don't even realize that they are unique. when a woman grow up, she view her mother as a role model. that's good. but she doesn't realize that her mother is only a basement for her psychological development and rest she only has to construct her own personality.
so, i was also like yet another woman who looked upto my mother. then i got the enlightenment. i got enough time to understand me..the REAL ME! it is then i felt that am capable of many things. my problem solving ability, the way i handle life situations, the decisions i make, the way i do things...all were carefully observed by me. you must be wondering what am trying to say. the word ME, I, MINE...it is not just the physical self am speaking about. I am not just one..but three self, that is mind, body and spirit. these three self are inseparable. as long as body exists mind will be there. but the spirit will persist even after your body is no more. once you realize this truth, things will be easy for you all.
don't think am ignoring men. no not at all ignoring. my concept about a man, a real man, is much different from what they generally consider the so called MANLINESS. i believe in "artha naareeswara". the concept of half woman and half man, god siva and goddess parvathy....its beautiful. every man has a woman with in and every woman has a man with in. that's what the 'artha naareeswara' means. i believe that a real woman and a real man doesn't have to prove themselves in anyway to make others believe that they are woman or man. by birth itself they are what they are and doesn't have to prove. its not what they are..its how they are. each one should understand the other gender very well.